Tuesday, 18 November 2014

Raahul's First day at the Youth Wing

 “All true friendliness begins with fire and food and drink and the recognition of rain or frost. ...each human soul has in a sense to enact for itself the gigantic humility of the incarnation. Every man must descend into the flesh to meet mankind.” – G.K Chesterson 

Whether it’s your first day at school, work or even a day out with your friends, it is guaranteed that you will be meeting new people and facing new challenges. Perhaps that is intimidating for many, and this is natural. Despite being told many times that there was nothing to worry about, I was apprehensive about attending the OSBM Youth Meeting for the first time. There were many things on my mind in the lead up to the meeting. What would the members think of me? Will I do something that will cause them to think badly of me? These questions were duly answered throughout the duration of the Youth Wing meeting.

On the 11th October 2014, I attended the meeting as a newcomer to the charity and its aims. I was anxious even before I stepped into the room, especially because the thought of meeting various new faces was daunting - as I expected to be alienated completely. I have met several of the youth members before, so I felt reassured as I knew that it will make it easier for me to interact with the whole group.

When I entered the room, there was a calm atmosphere. The green uniform was stunning and soft to the eye, laughter rang across the room as the members poured in. During the course of the meeting, there was an unusual sense of unity and harmony in the group. There were no squabbles and every opinion was valued. What struck me the most was the amount of participation from the students in the meeting. The meeting was mainly student led with responsibilities given to students to contribute and present to the group, allowing a stretch of freedom and an emphasis on student judgment.

The ages of the youth members differed but this didn’t change their value for each other. The youth members treated others not as friends, but as family. As a newcomer, I could sense that the OSBM Youth Wing were an inseparable unit, who constantly cared and respected one another. The OSBM Youth Wing capitalises on spirituality, and it was evident that this element was deeply rooted in each member, as their breathtaking knowledge was visible from the spiritual game we played in which we answered spiritual questions.

As it was Swami’s birthday, we blew up balloons and decorated the room with them, which was fun and also helped me co-operate with existing members. They were easy to talk to, and gladly aided me when I required help or was unsure about something. Food was brought in by several members and was distributed throughout the break session after two group presentations and tasted excellent.

Overall, the monthly meeting helped me understand not only the charity itself, but also the manner in which the members work, through co-operation and unity. All the members were friendly and I made new friends who helped me adapt to the atmosphere and therefore, it was definitely an enjoyable morning!


Swami's birthday cake

Appreciation and Gratitude

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Positive and Negative Mindsets

In our daily lives, we are bombarded with documentaries and adverts about human suffering in the Third world. Nevertheless, there is one story which doesn't cease to inspire me.


Catherine, 16, who is of the same age as me, has been a real inspiration towards my positive mindset in life. From a very young age, she has been forced to scavenge for plastic in rubbish dumps in order to help her dying mother. Should a child so young even be allowed to work in such treacherous conditions? This got me thinking and made me realise that although we were of the same age, she led a very different life to me. Despite the difficulties she endures every day, Catherine continues to work in her terrible conditions with a positive mindset. It was that day I realised little things which I took for granted mean a colossal amount to other people in Third world countries. Simultaneously, I also learnt that as a result of sheer obsession with materialistic possessions, many of us hold a negative mindset as we constantly want more and are unable to put a ceiling on our desires. In contrast, people who live in Third world countries come across as having more of a positive mind set  - as they consider every small thing they have as a privilege rather than something they feel entitled to. This is what sets us apart from them.




However, in my eyes, I see having a positive mindset as having more value in life. As in the West, whilst we might be rich in having many possessions, many of us are spiritually poor.